Transforming Defensiveness
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Product details
- ISBN 9781394296798
- Weight: 227g
- Dimensions: 150 x 226mm
- Publication Date: 21 Apr 2026
- Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc
- Publication City/Country: US
- Product Form: Paperback
A detailed, hands-on strategy guide for educators, facilitators, and leaders to explore defensiveness in themselves and others
Transforming Defensiveness: A Guidebook for Rewriting Our Stories & Reclaiming Connection offers a clear, practical roadmap for navigating the emotional responses that surface in conversations about identity, power, and difference. Designed for use in classrooms, workplaces, and community settings, the guidebook blends theory with hands-on tools—reflection exercises, discussion prompts, and real-world applications—to help readers recognize and navigate defensiveness. By unpacking the roots of defensive reactions and guiding readers toward greater self-awareness, empathy, and accountability, it offers skills to move beyond resistance and engage more authentically. Defensiveness is situated not only inside individuals and personal relationships, but also within cultures, systems, and institutions.
More than a collection of activities, Transforming Defensiveness provides a framework for building cultures of trust and belonging. It equips educators, facilitators, and leaders to create environments where people can feel acknowledged and valued, and where moments of tension can become opportunities for learning and connection. Through reflection, reframing, and social action, the guidebook fosters emotional intelligence, strengthens communication, and promotes more equitable systems of collaboration and leadership. Ultimately, it invites us to rewrite the stories that divide us and cultivate communities rooted in courage, curiosity, and connection.
ANDREA L. DOTTOLO, PhD, is a professor of psychology and gender & women’s studies at Rhode Island College. Her research explores the intersections of social identity, power, and culture, with particular attention to race, gender, sexuality, class, and migration. As the author and editor of several books, her scholarship examines how identities are shaped by social structures and lived experience. Through narrative and qualitative approaches, her work deepens understanding of how people make meaning of their experiences and build more authentic connections with others.
