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- ISBN 9781419776434
- Dimensions: 152 x 229mm
- Publication Date: 23 Oct 2025
- Publisher: Abrams
- Publication City/Country: US
- Product Form: Hardback
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The Internet’s most popular sex coach answers every TMI question about sex, dating, and relationships in this guide to sexual satisfaction that also features well-researched studies, engaging quizzes, prompts, and more
Dubbed the “Internet’s Resident Sexpert” by Paper magazine and known as the “Queen of Sex” on TikTok, Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn believes every person has the right to an incredible and fulfilling sex life, a message she preaches to her more than 2.3 million followers on social media.
How Do You Like It? introduces new trends, unique exercises, and nontraditional perspectives on sex, dating, and relationships and presents various in-depth methods of communication to use no matter where you are on your journey. Through intrapersonal, interpersonal, and societal lenses, Dr. Tara addresses important questions like: Why do most people have low sexual self-esteem and why don’t we hold ourselves accountable for a mediocre sex life?
With her tongue-in-cheek writing and fun personality, her answers are not only refreshing and unique but also informative and will help those struggling to understand themselves and their partners. This is the comprehensive sex education you never knew you needed.
Dr. Tara also reveals novel concepts in the sexual wellness space, from her own Myers-Briggs–inspired “Sexual Profile Quiz” to what’s exciting and trending in sex, porn, relationship types, and much more. So whether you’re in a monogamous, open, or polyamorous relationship or are curious about your sexual profile, Dr. Tara shows us that self-understanding, sexual communication, and erotic solutions will lead to long-term sexual fulfillment.
How Do You Like It? gives readers the permission to uncover their own sexual desires and overcome toxic sex shaming while also equipping them with the tools needed to discover their true sexual identities and lead a fulfilling sex life.
Dubbed the “Internet’s Resident Sexpert” by Paper magazine and known as the “Queen of Sex” on TikTok, Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn believes every person has the right to an incredible and fulfilling sex life, a message she preaches to her more than 2.3 million followers on social media.
How Do You Like It? introduces new trends, unique exercises, and nontraditional perspectives on sex, dating, and relationships and presents various in-depth methods of communication to use no matter where you are on your journey. Through intrapersonal, interpersonal, and societal lenses, Dr. Tara addresses important questions like: Why do most people have low sexual self-esteem and why don’t we hold ourselves accountable for a mediocre sex life?
With her tongue-in-cheek writing and fun personality, her answers are not only refreshing and unique but also informative and will help those struggling to understand themselves and their partners. This is the comprehensive sex education you never knew you needed.
Dr. Tara also reveals novel concepts in the sexual wellness space, from her own Myers-Briggs–inspired “Sexual Profile Quiz” to what’s exciting and trending in sex, porn, relationship types, and much more. So whether you’re in a monogamous, open, or polyamorous relationship or are curious about your sexual profile, Dr. Tara shows us that self-understanding, sexual communication, and erotic solutions will lead to long-term sexual fulfillment.
How Do You Like It? gives readers the permission to uncover their own sexual desires and overcome toxic sex shaming while also equipping them with the tools needed to discover their true sexual identities and lead a fulfilling sex life.
Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn is a Los Angeles–based tenured professor at California State University teaching sexual communication, a relationship/sex coach, an award-winning researcher, and the number one sex educator on TikTok. She solo-authored the textbook Quantitative Research Methods Workbook (2019) and coauthored a comprehensive textbook Sexual Communication: Research in Action (2022). She has been featured in popular publications such as Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, and Men’s Health,as well as on various news programs. She has also been featured as a guest on more than 50 podcasts, such as Sex and Psychology with Dr. Justin Lehmiller, This is Ashlynn, and Intimate Knowledge. Her recent study on long-term sexual satisfaction was highlighted in her TEDx Talk, “Become Sexually Powerful,” and her research only continues.
