Son's Secret

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child development
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family relationships
father-son
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gender
Lacanian psychoanalysis
Oedipus complex
parent-child relationships
patricide
prodigal son
Psychoanalysis
psychology
Recalcati
sex
son

Product details

  • ISBN 9781509531769
  • Weight: 136g
  • Dimensions: 130 x 196mm
  • Publication Date: 05 Mar 2020
  • Publisher: John Wiley and Sons Ltd
  • Publication City/Country: GB
  • Product Form: Paperback
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This new book by Massimo Recalcati focuses on the psycho-social life of the son. Comparing and contrasting the tragic story of Oedipus by Sophocles and the parable of the prodigal son, Recalcati argues that all common parenting strategies, whether authoritarian or democratic, are attempts at sealing the fate of sons – that is, they are designed to ensure that sons realize the dreams and fantasies of the parents. But all that sons want – and this is their secret because they generally do not want, or are unable, to confront their parents directly – is to be recognized as unique, as different, as independent, free-thinking individuals who are able to chart their own path in life, rather than extensions of their parents' fantasies. The parents' task is to acknowledge this, and to create the space for this desire to flourish.

Continuing his remarkable reflections on parents, children and family life, this new book by one of Italy's leading and bestselling public intellectuals will be of interest to a wide general readership.

Massimo Recalcati is a bestselling author and psychoanalyst who teaches at the universities of Pavia and Verona.

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