Monogamaybe?

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Product details

  • ISBN 9781805017233
  • Weight: 220g
  • Dimensions: 138 x 216mm
  • Publication Date: 21 Jul 2026
  • Publisher: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • Publication City/Country: GB
  • Product Form: Paperback
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One spouse, two-point-four kids, a golden retriever and a white picket fence. That's the goal, right?


For some people that sounds perfect. For others, the monogamous 'default' feels restrictive and uncomfortable, and a more flexible approach allows them to flourish. In this honest, open guide, Sarah Stroh shares her experiences coming to terms with being non-monogamous and offers ways to explore relationship structures outside the status quo.


With advice on handling shame and stigma, understanding jealousy in yourself and your partners, and navigating long-term commitment, this book shows you how to develop healthy open relationships that support everyone involved. Whether you're experienced with non-monogamy or simply poly-curious, this book will help you find relationship structures that work for you, and embrace life outside the box.

Sarah (she/they) is a writer, coach, and speaker focused on empowering people to pursue the relationships they truly want. She is the creator of the Monogamish newsletter on Substack and is active on Instagram where she discusses her non-monogamous life and all she's learning from it.

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