Getting Grief Right: Finding Your Story of Love in the Sorrow of Loss

When the New York Times ran Patrick OMalleys story about the loss of his infant sonand how his inability to move on challenged everything he was taught as a psychotherapistit inspired an unprecedented flood of gratitude from readers. What he shared was a truth that many have felt but rarely acknowledged by the professionals they turn to: that our grief is not a mental illness to be cured, but part of the abiding connection with the one weve lost. Illuminated by OMalleys own story and those of many clients that hes supported, readers learn how the familiar stages of grief too often mislabel our sorrow as a disorder, press us to get over it, and amplify our suffering with shame and guilt when we do not achieve closure in due course. Sadness, regret, confusion, yearningall the experiences of griefare a part of the narrative of love, reflects OMalley. Here, with uncommon sensitivity and support, he invites us to explore grief not as a process of recovery, but as the ongoing narrative of our relationship with the one weve lostto be fully felt, told, and woven into our lives. For those in bereavement and anyone supporting those who are, Getting Grief Right offers an uncommonly empathetic guide to opening to our sorrow as the full expression of our love. See more